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5 Sex Positions That Women Love

Updated: Mar 2, 2022

Hey men! Some moves you ruled out as "boring" may actually rock her world.

Mia Malkova, Danny Mountain

For the men out there who don't know what women actually want in the bedroom, the good news is I am here to give a few tips that can possibly take your love life to the next level. The bad news is what works for one woman might not work for another.

A woman tends to like positions that show off what she likes best about her body, that hide things she doesn't like so much, and that drive her partner crazy with lust for her. And beyond that, I think individual preferences might be very broad. A lot depends on the particular "fit" between two people.

Yes, we can't speak for all women, but there are certainly some sex positions that many women report are underused.

You see, there may be some hope after all. You may come to find that the results you are looking for aren't down the path you first attempt, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the process along the way and continue to search for the solution by trying (and perfecting) these sex positions.

Where should you start? Ask her directly. That takes courage, of course. But so do most things that end up being worthwhile. If she seems hesitant to express what she wants at first, you can encourage her to do so.

Sex in general is not very comfortable for many people to talk about, especially their sexual desires, as that opens them up to vulnerability.

It is important to create a safe space to communicate in a loving and non-threatening environment. Refrain from telling your partner what she is doing wrong. Nobody wants to hear about what they are doing wrong! Instead, compliment them on the things they do great and that you love and enjoy. Finally, follow it up with the sexual wants, needs, or desires that you would like more of. At the end of the day, we are responsible for our sexual pleasure!

Now, let's take a look at the 5 sex positions most women secretly crave:

1. Cunnilingus (Oral Sex)

oral sex

It is hard to speak so broadly, as there are 2.5 billion adult women in the world, and undoubtedly innumerable different sex position preferences among them. But for the women I have encountered in my life, who are between the ages of 18 and 45, often a highly craved sex position is the one where she lays on her back with her legs spread and knees bent, with her partner lying on their stomach and their mouth on their vulva—also known as cunnilingus/oral sex.

The reason women crave oral sex is that it stimulates the clitoris, which usually isn't stimulated during penile vaginal sex. That's why this sex act is more reliably orgasmic than some other ones.

2. Missionary Position / Missionary Squeeze

missionary position

The missionary position usually isn't considered a position that women (or men) crave since it’s often seen as boring. However, that doesn't mean you can't spice it up. I recommend enhancing the regular missionary position by doing the missionary squeeze.

How is it done? The woman lies on her back while her partner is on top. She squeezes her legs together and grinds against his pelvis as he slides in and out. The reason this works is that she activates her pubococcygeus or PC muscles and gets lots of stimulation against both the internal and external clitoris.

The missionary position is also one of the most romantic. Women enjoy missionary position because it allows partners to connect on a deeper and more meaningful level. Women like to feel intimately connected to their partners, especially during sex. With missionary position, the body is in alignment and allows easy entry into the vagina. Partners are able to gaze into each other’s eyes, breathe together, take long passionate kisses, maintain body-to-body closeness, and synchronize their movements. The friction of bodies touching makes penetration more satisfying leading to an intense orgasm.

3. Woman on Top (And Its Variations)

reverse cowgirl

Women also crave any variation where they are on top, which includes positions like Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, The Lotus, and Yab-Yum.

Women love these positions because they allow them to be able to control the speed, angle, and depth of penetration. When a woman is on top, it makes it easier for her to move in a way that feels more pleasurable for her. The man's hands are free to roam and stimulate other pleasure points of her body such as her breast, back, and butt, which also helps to increase her body's sensitivity. These positions also offer direct stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot, which can maximize her chances of having an orgasm.

Couples should also try the Assisted Reverse Cowgirl since this position provides extra stimulation to a woman’s clitoris and cul de sac (the deep part on the lower wall of the vagina near the cervix). The way to do it: She rides him facing toward his feet. He bends his legs/knees keeping his feet flat on the mattress so that she can lean forward against his thighs.

4. Tabletop

The tabletop position provides easy access to the clitoris. Either partner can stimulate the clitoris with their hands or a toy during strokes. Also, the clitoris can be gently pushed down to receive stimulation during the stroking motion. Moreover, this position ups the intimacy, as there is plenty of opportunity for eye-contact.

You don't always need a table for this position—any surface that hits your partner at crotch height will do. Have them enter you while you are sitting or lying at the edge of a table, counter, or maybe even your bed.

If the position gets uncomfortable, I recommend placing a pillow under the receiving partner.

5. Spooning

While spooning certainly isn't a secret to most men, some men choose sexual positions in an effort to impress women with their sexual prowess rather than going with a tried-and-true method.

The angle of this position puts pressure in all the right places for both partners. Although spooning does not allow for eye contact, it is still a great position because of the closeness. Similarly to the woman on top positions, spooning position allows the man to access to all the pleasure points on the woman's body. Her partner can caress her stomach, breast, neck, and clitoris.

Spooning is popular since there is full-body contact, which allows for cuddling and low-intensity sex that can last for a long time.

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Netrapal Gautam
Netrapal Gautam
Apr 08, 2022

Nice pic


Netrapal Gautam
Netrapal Gautam
Apr 08, 2022


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